AY00 XANGiANSS.. Y0U'VE BEEN MiSSED DEARLY.. BELiEVE THAT.. WELL HERES A STiCKY TOPiC iD LiKE TO DiSCUSS..

"WHATS THE POiNT OF HAViNG A BOYFRiEND AS OPPOSSED TO A FRiEND WHOSE A BOY??" i MEAN, WHATS THE DiFFERENCE? WELL AS i ASKED MANY PEOPLE THiS QUESTiON AT SCHOOL, THE MAJORiTY ANSWERS OF THE FEMALE GENDER SAY, "WELL A BOYFRiEND BUYS YU THiNGS, AND HE HUGS AND HE KiSSES YU AND THERES A DEEPER iNTAMACY iNVOLVED WiTH YA MAN".. TRUE, TRUE.. HOWEVERR. CAN'T YU DO THOSE EXACT SAME THiNGS WiTH A FRiEND? AND HERES WHERE THE PHRASE: "FRiENDS WiTH BENEFiTS" COME iNTO PLAY.. AND THANKS TO URBANDiCTiONARY.COM, THAT TERM MEANS WHEN TWO PEOPLE CAN iNVOLVE THEMSELVES WiTH SEX AND ABSTAiN FROM EMOTiONAL FEELiNGS.. WHEN YU HEAR THAT, iT MAKES ANY GiRL LOOK LiKE A WHORE OR A LiL GOOD TiME, AND i CAN SEE HOW OFFENSiVE SOME MAY TAKE iT, BUT iSNT THAT WHAT YOUR DOiNG WHEN YOU PHYSiCALLY SHARE YOURSELF WiTH SOMEONE WHOSE MERELY A FRiEND?? i GUESS iTS HOW YU LOOK AT iT, CUZ THE WAY i SEE iT, iS THAT THE ONLY DiFFERENCE iS SiMPLY THE TiTLE. SOME CHiCKS MAY NOT WANT THE RESPONSiBLiTY OF BEiNG A "ONE MAN, WOMAN" JUST AS SOME MAN CAN'T TAKE THE HEAT OF BEiN A "ONE WOMAN, MAN".. THATS JUST HOW iT WORKS NOW THESE DAYS, BUT i WANT TO HEAR FROM YU..

HOW DO YU FEEL ABOUT "FRiENDS WiTH BENEFiTS"

never know how much i love you, never now how much i care.
when you put your arms around me, i get a fever that`s so hard to bare

HELLO MOTO.. HERES THE BUiSNESS: NEW GUY AT MY SCHOOL, CALLS HiSSELF "HOLLYWOOD", LiGHTSKiNNED, HAZEL EYES, CHRiS BROWN HAiR CUT, LOL. NORMALLY i DONT GO FOR THE LiGHTSKiNNED TYPE, [i CRAVE FORR CHOCOLATE =] BUT ONCE HE WALKED iNTO MY CLASSROOM AND GAVE ME THAT TAYE DiGGS SMiLE, i WAS MESMORiZED LOL... SO WE'VE BEEN TALKiN SiNCE LAST FRiDAY, AND iM REALLY FEELiN HiM AND HE'S DiGGiN ME, THEN LAST NiGHT ON THE PHONE, HE CONFESSED THAT HE'S iN A GANG [BL00D] AND THE REASON WHY HE MOVED DOWN TO LiL 'OL GEORGiA WAS CUZ, HiS BEST FRiEND GAVE HiS LiFE TAKiN THE BULLET FOR HiM.. HOLLYWOOD SAYS HE REALLY REALLY LiKES ME, AND HE THiNKS WE'VE COULD HAVE SOMETHiNG SPECiAL, BUT i DONT THiNK iM "RiDE-OR-DiE CHiCK" MATERiAL..iDK, HE'S FUNNY, SWEET, SENSiTiVE, YET GANGSTERR AT THE SAME TiME, AND WHAT - HE EXPECTS ME TO BE HiS "BONNiE & CLYDE"?? i TOLD HiM TO LET ME GiVE iT SOME THOUGHT, BUT iM STUCK. i DONT WANT TO BE SHALLOW OR NOTHiN, i HAD LOST A FRiEND TO GANG ViOLENCE, AND iD HATE TO LOSE A "BOYFRiEND" TO THE GAME TOO...